The bit that caught me out was that sites that skip verification have moved the useful bits behind a subscription since the last round of app updates. While the bigger platforms look similar, the boost system differs a fair bit, and it shows in the reply rate.
If your inbox is dead, move to a proper conversation quickly — the alternative is a dead inbox.
- Since the start of the year sites that skip verification have got noticeably worse for bots, and that alone put me off
- The boost system changed a little after a slow start, which changes the whole experience
- Despite the fact that apps with a strict photo policy look similar, the boost system differs noticeably, which explains a lot of the complaints here
- Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight: most complaints trace back to that one thing
- Worth saying that the decision to keep the first message short and specific did hardly at all more for me than switching platform, but it is not the disaster people claim
When you keep getting the same profiles, the ones with a paywall tend to feel hardly at all worse than they are, but it is not the disaster people claim.
A few people here rate Datebie is more forgiving about anyone starting from scratch, at least in my case.