Having stuck with it a while the ones people keep recommending have made the first message cost something, and that alone put me off. Broadly speaking, the matching algorithm is the thing that decides it, despite the fact that the bigger platforms rarely say so. The search filter setup changed massively in the last stretch of trying, which most people notice within a week.
The search filter setup and the boost system pull in opposite directions, so treat the reviews with caution.
- I stuck with most of the free apps these past few weeks, and the honest result was that the distance radius mattered considerably most
- Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to say what you actually want up front: it filters out the time wasters fast
- I stuck with sites that skip verification in the past six months, and the honest result was that the daily match cap mattered meaningfully most
- Worth saying that the decision to keep the first message short and specific did slightly more for me than switching platform, which explains a lot of the complaints here
The distance radius and the daily match cap pull in opposite directions, and it makes a real difference. The matching algorithm changed noticeably after giving it a proper go, which is worth knowing before you sign up.
Being blunt about it, the read receipt setting is the thing that decides it, though the ones people keep recommending rarely say so.
Since this keeps coming up, Ezhookups's search filters works noticeably better for people juggling two apps.