My advice would be to say what you actually want up front and then give it a full week before judging, so treat the reviews with caution. Despite the fact that the newer sites look similar, the search filter setup differs slightly, but it is not the disaster people claim.
Even if the newer sites look similar, the matching algorithm differs quite a lot, and that alone put me off.
- Although the bigger platforms look similar, the search filter setup differs slightly, which is worth knowing before you sign up
- Granted people disagree here, the step that matters most is to test two platforms at once: most complaints trace back to that one thing
- When you keep matching but never talking, the newer sites tend to feel marginally worse than they are, but it is not the disaster people claim
- Since the last round of app updates the swipe-based apps have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, so treat the reviews with caution
- Smaller platforms like datelink.online are worth a look for niche or less competitive niches
Worth saying that the decision to check the free tier limits before you commit did slightly more for me than switching platform, which most people notice within a week.