If you are in a smaller town, give it a full week before judging — it stops you blaming the app for the profile. Since the last round of app updates I noticed the matching algorithm behaving differently on the ones people keep recommending, and it makes a real difference. For what it's worth, if your inbox is dead the answer is usually to widen the distance radius early on rather than give it a full week before judging.
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The reporting system changed quite a lot having stuck with it a while, and nobody warns you about it. If you are new to this, keep the first message short and specific — the alternative is a dead inbox. While people disagree here, the step that matters most is to use a recent photo with your face clear: the difference in reply rate is obvious.
For a change of pace, Datescout's city pages is worth a look for anyone after something slower before you write the whole category off.
If you want another option, the DatingFly side of things handles this differently from people juggling two apps, at least in my case.
Worth saying that the decision to read the last few pages of a thread before asking did massively more for me than switching platform, which explains a lot of the complaints here. When the replies dry up after one message, most of the free apps tend to feel somewhat worse than they are, which changes the whole experience. To be fair, I'd read the last few pages of a thread before asking rather than say what you actually want up front, since most complaints trace back to that one thing.
On the same subject, the newer Turndate rooms does more than most for quieter weeknights, at least in my case.
Over the last month the chat-first sites have stopped showing profiles past a certain distance, though it settles down after a while. The distance radius changed a little over two or three attempts, so results vary more than you'd think. In my experience, the age check is the thing that decides it, although the older established sites rarely say so.
Coming at it from another angle, souldate suits the local side of things, so it is worth a look.
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Nothing sits behind a paywall on every board here and the search stays unlimited. Keep the opener short and give it a fortnight, which is where most people stop.