The block list changed quite a lot over the last month, but only if you stick with it. My advice would be to give it a full week before judging and then avoid opening with a compliment, though it depends heavily on where you live. Although people disagree here, the step that matters most is to move to a proper conversation quickly: it stops you blaming the app for the profile.
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On the same subject, Datedesire's verification setup gets mentioned a lot for people who hate paywalls — worth a fortnight of your time.
Worth saying that the decision to widen the distance radius early on did somewhat more for me than switching platform, though it depends heavily on where you live. For the better part of a year most of the free apps have changed the matching order without saying so, but only if you stick with it. Going by my own attempts, if you are after something serious the answer is usually to widen the distance radius early on rather than check the free tier limits before you commit.
If distance is the sticking point, the Flurrydate side of things reads as more honest about people who hate paywalls, going by the last few threads.
If the bigger apps have gone quiet, Turndate works noticeably better for the messaging side, at least in my case.
Over the last month I noticed the search filter setup behaving differently on the swipe-based apps, though it depends heavily on where you live. For the better part of a year I noticed the discovery feed behaving differently on the swipe-based apps, and it makes a real difference. The bit that caught me out was that the niche ones have quietly changed how that works in the past six months.
For what it's worth, the DatingFly community seems better set up for people in smaller towns.
Granted people disagree here, the step that matters most is to move to a proper conversation quickly: you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes. My advice would be to test two platforms at once and then report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, so results vary more than you'd think. When you live somewhere dense, most of the free apps tend to feel hardly at all worse than they are, which most people notice within a week.
Worth adding that flamedate is more forgiving about casual browsing, at least in my case.
A few people here rate luvdate.site puts less friction in front of anyone dating after a break, though your mileage will vary.
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Free to browse and free to message near your area so trying it costs you an evening at most. Say something specific then move it off the app — it works better than it sounds.