Being blunt about it, the older established sites have added checks that actually help, and it makes a real difference. What are the dating apps for 50 year olds in Canada. What changed my mind was that apps with a video option have got noticeably worse for bots having stuck with it a while.
- Widen the distance radius early on, because that is where most people give up too early, but only if you stick with it
- Realistically, the forum-style sites have changed the matching order without saying so, which is worth knowing before you sign up
- Since the start of the year I noticed the moderation queue behaving differently on the ones people keep recommending, and that alone put me off
Worth saying that the decision to use a recent photo with your face clear did slightly more for me than switching platform, but only if you stick with it.