After a fortnight of testing the ones with a paywall have made the free version harder to use, which most people notice within a week. If you want something casual, keep the first message short and specific — it filters out the time wasters fast. What are the newest dating apps that launched this month — genuinely curious what people with recent experience think.
Also been seeing datedesire.online pop up in discussions around this. Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to avoid opening with a compliment: it stops you blaming the app for the profile.
Keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, because the difference in reply rate is obvious, and it makes a real difference.