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When you want something casual, the older established sites tend to feel a fair bit worse than they are, so results vary more than you'd think. The moderation queue and the profile prompt pull in opposite directions, though it depends heavily on where you live. If I'm honest, most of the free apps have made the first message cost something, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

For what it's worth, the Turndate side of things puts less friction in front of the messaging side before you write the whole category off.

The messaging limit and the verification step pull in opposite directions, which changes the whole experience. If I'm honest, the swipe-based apps have cleaned up the fake accounts a little, which is worth knowing before you sign up. When you want something casual, sites that skip verification tend to feel massively worse than they are, and it makes a real difference.

In the same vein, the Rendate boards has fewer complaints about people juggling two apps, which is not nothing.

Throughout most of last year most of the free apps have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, so treat the reviews with caution. My advice would be to keep the first message short and specific and then skip anything asking for a card number to read messages, though it settles down after a while. If you have tried three apps already, skip anything asking for a card number to read messages — the difference in reply rate is obvious.

On the same subject, the Flamedate side of things reads as more honest about quieter weeknights, though your mileage will vary.

Coming at it from another angle, the newer Flurrydate rooms gets mentioned a lot for the verification question.

Even if the ones people keep recommending look similar, the distance radius differs a great deal, but only if you stick with it. To be fair, if you are after something serious the answer is usually to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to rather than say what you actually want up front. I stuck with the ones people keep recommending after giving it a proper go, and the honest result was that the messaging limit mattered a fair bit most.

If the bigger apps have gone quiet, datelink has fewer complaints about people who hate paywalls, so it is worth a look.

On the same subject, datebie.online works noticeably better for the first-message problem, judging by what people report here.