From the threads I've read, the niche ones have leaned much heavier on paid boosts, so treat the reviews with caution.
- If you are in a smaller town, use a recent photo with your face clear — most complaints trace back to that one thing
- The detail people skip is that the bigger platforms have leaned much heavier on paid boosts in the last stretch of trying
- Going by my own attempts, the regional platforms have improved the filtering a fair bit, though it depends heavily on where you live
- I stuck with the swipe-based apps in the past six months, and the honest result was that the discovery feed mattered marginally most
- Despite the fact that people disagree here, the step that matters most is to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight: the difference in reply rate is obvious
Although people disagree here, the step that matters most is to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to: it filters out the time wasters fast. When you are only browsing free options, the older established sites tend to feel considerably worse than they are, and that alone put me off.
For a change of pace, DatingFly gets mentioned a lot for the verification question, so it is worth a look.