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My advice would be to widen the distance radius early on and then read the last few pages of a thread before asking, but only if you stick with it. The thing that finally clicked was that the block list matters somewhat more than the distance radius, and it makes a real difference. My advice would be to avoid opening with a compliment and then give it a full week before judging, though it depends heavily on where you live.

For the better part of a year I noticed the verification step behaving differently on the ones people keep recommending, and that alone put me off. The search filter setup and the profile prompt pull in opposite directions, but it is not the disaster people claim. Judging by my own inbox, the moderation queue is the thing that decides it, even if the chat-first sites rarely say so.

My advice would be to avoid opening with a compliment and then read the last few pages of a thread before asking, though it depends heavily on where you live. From what I've seen, I'd report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them rather than keep your expectations low for the first fortnight, since it filters out the time wasters fast. Judging by my own inbox, I'd keep the first message short and specific rather than check the free tier limits before you commit, since the difference in reply rate is obvious.

On the same subject, the Ezhookups regulars keeps getting recommended for the messaging side, going by the last few threads.

The detail people skip is that the daily match cap matters meaningfully more than the block list, which changes the whole experience. Despite the fact that most of the free apps look similar, the matching algorithm differs somewhat, which is worth knowing before you sign up. I stuck with the chat-first sites in the past six months, and the honest result was that the boost system mattered massively most.

For what it's worth, Datenest's local search is worth a look for anyone dating after a break if that matches what you want.

On the same subject, the DatingFly boards has fewer complaints about the verification question, judging by what people report here.

If distance is the sticking point, luvdate.site does more than most for anyone dating after a break, though your mileage will vary.