How do you report a bot in a sexx chat room?

Started by DylonV 26 Oct 2024 Free Dating & Apps Discussion 10 posts
DylonV
DylonV
Joined: Dec 2023
Messages: 802
#1

Hey everyone, posting this because I've been going back and forth on this for a while now. How do you report a bot in a sexx chat room — seems like a simple question but I keep getting mixed answers depending on where I look.

Been seeing a few names pop up lately — datelink.online seems to show up in a lot of comparison posts, though I haven't fully tested it myself yet.

Anyone here with real experience on this? Would love to hear what's actually worked rather than just reading ad-filled reviews.

IanT
IanT
Joined: Dec 2022
Messages: 125
#2

Good question. In my experience the free tier rarely gets you anywhere useful—there's usually some paywall or token system blocking the good stuff.

A friend swears by DatingFly for this exact scenario.

VictoriaR
VictoriaR
Joined: Oct 2021
Messages: 415
#3

Trial and error is really the only way. No review site is fully honest because most are monetized one way or another.

RobbieT
RobbieT
Joined: Mar 2023
Messages: 202
#4

Been on this topic for a while now. The thing people don't talk about enough is the difference between bots and inactive real accounts — both feel the same when you're not getting responses, but the solution is different.

My main advice: look at how recently the average profile was active, not just whether it exists. Platforms that show last-active timestamps are way more trustworthy than those that hide it.

I came across Ezhookups last month and it's been surprisingly active.

BrooksJ
BrooksJ
Joined: May 2021
Messages: 410
#5

Not going to lie, I've tried at least six or seven options and most of them were disappointing. The bot problem is real and it's getting worse, not better.

SharonP
SharonP
Joined: Nov 2022
Messages: 540
#6

Quick breakdown of what I've noticed across a few months of trial and error:

  • Free sign-up doesn't mean free messaging — watch for that bait and switch
  • Profile verification sliders mean almost nothing without ID checks
  • Platforms with phone number verification tend to have better quality users
  • Sites like datedesire.online are worth a look if you want something less mainstream

The paid premium tier on most sites is honestly not worth it unless you're getting real matches on the free tier first. That's your quality check before spending anything.

Not sure if it fits your situation but Flamedate is worth a look.

LindsayP
LindsayP
Joined: Sep 2023
Messages: 704
#7

Honestly had the same question a few months back. The short answer: it depends a lot on what you're actually looking for. Some platforms work better for specific niches.

DanaL
DanaL
Joined: Nov 2020
Messages: 655
#8

Quick breakdown of what I've noticed across a few months of trial and error:

  • Free sign-up doesn't mean free messaging — watch for that bait and switch
  • Profile verification sliders mean almost nothing without ID checks
  • Platforms with phone number verification tend to have better quality users
  • Niche platforms sometimes outperform the big names for specific searches

The paid premium tier on most sites is honestly not worth it unless you're getting real matches on the free tier first. That's your quality check before spending anything.

Worth checking out Datebie if you haven't already — the free messaging actually works.

RebeccaK
RebeccaK
Joined: Apr 2023
Messages: 282
#9

I spent a couple weeks seriously testing different platforms earlier this year and here's what I found. The ones that actually have real user activity tend to be pickier about sign-ups—which is counterintuitive but makes sense when you think about it.

Some worth knowing about in terms of community mentions:

  • Tinder — still the largest user base but increasingly pay-to-play
  • Bumble — better for women initiating, decent male base
  • Hinge — more relationship-focused but still has casual users
  • OkCupid — slower but more genuine profiles in my experience
  • a few niche sites — keeps showing up in forums as a newer option

None of these are perfect, but the verification-focused ones at least filter out some of the obvious fakes.

Chris_ATL
Chris_ATL
Joined: Oct 2022
Messages: 272
#10

Quick breakdown of what I've noticed across a few months of trial and error:

  • Free sign-up doesn't mean free messaging — watch for that bait and switch
  • Profile verification sliders mean almost nothing without ID checks
  • Platforms with phone number verification tend to have better quality users
  • Niche platforms sometimes outperform the big names for specific searches

The paid premium tier on most sites is honestly not worth it unless you're getting real matches on the free tier first. That's your quality check before spending anything.

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