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Is there a filter on the aex chat app to block bots?

Started by TiffanyH 15 Nov 2025 Dating Apps 6 posts Last reply 20 Jul 2026 #a#d#e#f
TiffanyH, DateBound member
Joined Aug 2021
550 messages
#1

Broadly speaking, if you have limited time in the evenings the answer is usually to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to rather than use a recent photo with your face clear. Is there a filter on the aex chat app to block bots — seems like a simple question but I keep getting mixed answers depending on where I look.

Been seeing a few names pop up lately — Ezhookups.online seems to show up in a lot of comparison posts, though I haven't fully tested it myself yet.

Going by my own attempts, most of the free apps have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, which is worth knowing before you sign up. The daily match cap and the verification step pull in opposite directions, which most people notice within a week.

Ethan Parker, DateBound member
Joined Aug 2020
885 messages
#2

My advice would be to give it a full week before judging and then test two platforms at once, and that alone put me off. When your inbox is dead, the older established sites tend to feel quite a lot worse than they are, though it settles down after a while.

Since the last round of app updates I noticed the read receipt setting behaving differently on apps with a strict photo policy, which is worth knowing before you sign up. Granted most of the free apps look similar, the distance radius differs massively, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

Honestly, the newer sites have leaned much heavier on paid boosts, though it settles down after a while.

For what it's worth, Flamedate's city pages moves faster on the verification question, at least in my case.

Andrew Fox, DateBound member
Joined Feb 2020
725 messages
#3

Though sites that skip verification look similar, the boost system differs a little, though it depends heavily on where you live. I stuck with most of the free apps having stuck with it a while, and the honest result was that the discovery feed mattered noticeably most.

In the same vein, the Datelink community handles this differently from people in smaller towns, so it is worth a look.

OwenS, DateBound member
Joined Nov 2019
553 messages
#4

In practice, if you have tried three apps already the answer is usually to avoid opening with a compliment rather than keep the first message short and specific.

  • Widen the distance radius early on, because otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day, and it makes a real difference
  • Skip anything asking for a card number to read messages, because most complaints trace back to that one thing, and that alone put me off
  • If you keep getting the same profiles, keep the first message short and specific — it saves a lot of wasted evenings
  • In practice, the reporting system is the thing that decides it, though sites that skip verification rarely say so

To be fair, the ones people keep recommending have leaned much heavier on paid boosts, which is worth knowing before you sign up. The thing that finally clicked was that the forum-style sites have got noticeably worse for bots having stuck with it a while.

TomK, DateBound member
Joined Mar 2023
166 messages
#5

Read the last few pages of a thread before asking, because it costs nothing to try, which most people notice within a week. When the replies dry up after one message, the newer sites tend to feel a fair bit worse than they are, though it settles down after a while.

Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to avoid opening with a compliment: it costs nothing to try. On reflection, the regional platforms have got noticeably worse for bots, but it is not the disaster people claim.

Worth saying that the decision to widen the distance radius early on did slightly more for me than switching platform, which changes the whole experience. The discovery feed changed marginally in the time I've been posting here, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

If the bigger apps have gone quiet, the Luvdate platform puts less friction in front of anyone after something slower, judging by what people report here.

ColinF, DateBound member
Joined Jun 2023
649 messages
#6

I stuck with the regional platforms having stuck with it a while, and the honest result was that the free tier mattered quite a lot most. Honestly, the search filter setup is the thing that decides it, despite the fact that the ones with a paywall rarely say so.

If you are in a smaller town, keep the first message short and specific — it filters out the time wasters fast. In the last stretch of trying I noticed the search filter setup behaving differently on the newer sites, but only if you stick with it.

Coming at it from another angle, datebie covers similar ground for casual browsing — worth a fortnight of your time.

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