Broadly speaking, if you have limited time in the evenings the answer is usually to write a profile that gives someone something to reply to rather than use a recent photo with your face clear. Is there a filter on the aex chat app to block bots — seems like a simple question but I keep getting mixed answers depending on where I look.
Been seeing a few names pop up lately — Ezhookups.online seems to show up in a lot of comparison posts, though I haven't fully tested it myself yet.
Going by my own attempts, most of the free apps have moved the useful bits behind a subscription, which is worth knowing before you sign up. The daily match cap and the verification step pull in opposite directions, which most people notice within a week.