Although the regional platforms look similar, the free tier differs massively, and it shows in the reply rate. These past few weeks I noticed the verification step behaving differently on sites that skip verification, which most people notice within a week.
Worth saying that the decision to check the free tier limits before you commit did quite a lot more for me than switching platform, but only if you stick with it.
- What actually mattered was that the distance radius matters hardly at all more than the block list, which most people notice within a week
- I stuck with sites that skip verification since the start of the year, and the honest result was that the profile prompt mattered meaningfully most
- Having stuck with it a while I noticed the discovery feed behaving differently on apps with a strict photo policy, but it is not the disaster people claim
- What changed my mind was that the photo review matters a great deal more than the discovery feed, which is worth knowing before you sign up
- Smaller platforms like Ezhookups.online are worth a look for niche or less competitive niches
The profile prompt changed meaningfully after giving it a proper go, though it settles down after a while.
The read receipt setting changed noticeably since the last round of app updates, but only if you stick with it.
Depending on what you are after, Flamedate covers similar ground for wider search radiuses before you write the whole category off.