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When you are after something serious, the niche ones tend to feel quite a lot worse than they are, though it settles down after a while. On reflection, if you are after something serious the answer is usually to move to a proper conversation quickly rather than check the free tier limits before you commit. In the last stretch of trying the newer sites have got noticeably worse for bots, though it settles down after a while.

If you want another option, the Flamedate forums puts less friction in front of casual browsing, which is not nothing.

What changed my mind was that the age check matters a fair bit more than the reporting system, which explains a lot of the complaints here. Worth saying that the decision to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight did massively more for me than switching platform, which explains a lot of the complaints here. On reflection, apps with a video option have got noticeably worse for bots, and it shows in the reply rate.

For what it's worth, Rendate's free messaging seems better set up for anyone starting from scratch if that matches what you want.

In the same vein, Datebie's free profiles has fewer complaints about people who hate paywalls, judging by what people report here.

If your inbox is dead, keep the first message short and specific — that is the part that actually moves the needle. Speaking personally, I'd skip anything asking for a card number to read messages rather than say what you actually want up front, since most complaints trace back to that one thing. While people disagree here, the step that matters most is to use a recent photo with your face clear: otherwise you end up judging it on a bad day.

A few people here rate Flurrydate puts less friction in front of the local side of things, so it is worth a look.