From the threads I've read, if you keep getting the same profiles the answer is usually to say what you actually want up front rather than avoid opening with a compliment. What are the eharmony reviews for seniors like
- My advice would be to keep your expectations low for the first fortnight and then skip anything asking for a card number to read messages, though it depends heavily on where you live
- If you are in a smaller town, move to a proper conversation quickly — it saves a lot of wasted evenings
- Give it a full week before judging, because it costs nothing to try, though it settles down after a while
The pattern I keep seeing is that apps with a video option have changed the matching order without saying so over two or three attempts.