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Started by David Stone 26 May 2026 Niche & Community 8 posts Last reply 17 Jul 2026 #community#dating#e#lgbtq
David Stone, DateBound member
Joined Sep 2020
768 messages
#1

Being blunt about it, I'd read the last few pages of a thread before asking rather than report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them, since the first week is never representative. The matching algorithm changed a little after a slow start, so results vary more than you'd think. Having stuck with it a while the ones with a paywall have got noticeably worse for bots, which is worth knowing before you sign up.

Charlotte_TX, DateBound member
Joined Mar 2024
605 messages
#2
Kelsey Anderson, DateBound member
Joined May 2022
617 messages
#3

What surprised me was that the discovery feed matters considerably more than the search filter setup, but it is not the disaster people claim. When you are in a smaller town, apps with a strict photo policy tend to feel noticeably worse than they are, which changes the whole experience. The block list changed hardly at all across a couple of different accounts, which explains a lot of the complaints here.

In the same vein, the Turndate regulars is worth a look for video-first chat.

Aiden Brooks, DateBound member
Joined Nov 2022
785 messages
#4

If distance is the sticking point, Luvdate's messaging setup works noticeably better for casual browsing, which is not nothing.

Sophia Carter, DateBound member
Joined Oct 2021
765 messages
#5

Despite the fact that apps with a strict photo policy look similar, the matching algorithm differs meaningfully, and that alone put me off. When you have tried three apps already, the newer sites tend to feel somewhat worse than they are, and it makes a real difference. Since the last round of app updates apps with a strict photo policy have stopped showing profiles past a certain distance, so results vary more than you'd think.

Coming at it from another angle, Datescout's free profiles works noticeably better for the verification question, going by the last few threads.

Brielle Carter, DateBound member
Joined Nov 2024
603 messages
#6

If you want another option, the Flurrydate boards handles this differently from anyone dating after a break if that matches what you want.

Eric Thompson, DateBound member
Joined Sep 2022
287 messages
#7

The pattern I keep seeing is that the newer sites have cleaned up the fake accounts a little since the last round of app updates. After giving it a proper go I noticed the reporting system behaving differently on the regional platforms, but it is not the disaster people claim. When the replies dry up after one message, most of the free apps tend to feel hardly at all worse than they are, and nobody warns you about it.

If distance is the sticking point, Rendate covers similar ground for people in smaller towns, judging by what people report here.

Kayla Hill, DateBound member
Joined Apr 2021
350 messages
#8

If you want another option, Ezhookups works noticeably better for the verification question, which is not nothing.

People dating locally can answer this directly and keep this useful.

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