What changed my mind was that the matching algorithm matters quite a lot more than the reporting system, but it is not the disaster people claim. Even if people disagree here, the step that matters most is to keep the first message short and specific: it stops you blaming the app for the profile.
I stuck with the regional platforms throughout most of last year, and the honest result was that the matching algorithm mattered marginally most.
- In my experience, I'd check the free tier limits before you commit rather than say what you actually want up front, since the first week is never representative
- If you have tried three apps already, report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them — most complaints trace back to that one thing
- My advice would be to use a recent photo with your face clear and then keep the first message short and specific, though it settles down after a while
- My advice would be to keep the first message short and specific and then check the free tier limits before you commit, but it is not the disaster people claim
- If you live somewhere dense, keep your expectations low for the first fortnight — the first week is never representative
The search filter setup and the reporting system pull in opposite directions, but it is not the disaster people claim.
If I'm honest, I'd check the free tier limits before you commit rather than keep the first message short and specific, since that is the part that actually moves the needle.
Coming at it from another angle, Rendate's local search has fewer complaints about anyone after something slower, though your mileage will vary.