I stuck with sites that skip verification in the past six months, and the honest result was that the matching algorithm mattered noticeably most. Check the free tier limits before you commit, because that is where most people give up too early, and it makes a real difference.
Speaking personally, apps with a strict photo policy have dropped the feature everyone used, and nobody warns you about it.
- What changed my mind was that the ones with a paywall have moved the useful bits behind a subscription in the time I've been posting here
- When you have tried three apps already, the ones with a paywall tend to feel marginally worse than they are, which explains a lot of the complaints here
- What surprised me was that the discovery feed matters a little more than the photo review, and it makes a real difference
- While the ones people keep recommending look similar, the distance radius differs a fair bit, though it depends heavily on where you live
- Smaller platforms like datescout.site are worth a look for niche or less competitive niches
From what I've seen, the matching algorithm is the thing that decides it, granted the bigger platforms rarely say so.
While the forum-style sites look similar, the matching algorithm differs noticeably, so treat the reviews with caution.