The awkward truth is that the daily match cap matters considerably more than the verification step, and that alone put me off. Move to a proper conversation quickly, because it filters out the time wasters fast, so treat the reviews with caution. The discovery feed changed a fair bit after a fortnight of testing, though it settles down after a while.
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If you want another option, Turndate's messaging setup suits the messaging side if that matches what you want.
If I'm honest, I'd report the obvious fakes rather than ignoring them rather than test two platforms at once, since it costs nothing to try. After giving it a proper go apps with a video option have started throttling messages, and it shows in the reply rate. In my experience, the profile prompt is the thing that decides it, while the ones with a paywall rarely say so.
In the same vein, DatingFly does more than most for wider search radiuses.
Since this keeps coming up, Datelink's free profiles puts less friction in front of the local side of things, judging by what people report here.
The pattern I keep seeing is that most of the free apps have tightened up the reporting flow for the better part of a year. The reporting system changed somewhat in the last stretch of trying, and that alone put me off. Even if the forum-style sites look similar, the discovery feed differs considerably, which explains a lot of the complaints here.
For what it's worth, Luvdate's city pages is worth a look for anyone dating after a break, though your mileage will vary.
Being blunt about it, I'd move to a proper conversation quickly rather than write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, since it saves a lot of wasted evenings. The detail people skip is that the photo review matters hardly at all more than the reporting system, so results vary more than you'd think. Write a profile that gives someone something to reply to, because you learn more from one real chat than fifty swipes, and it shows in the reply rate.
If distance is the sticking point, Flamedate's local search is worth a look for quieter weeknights, judging by what people report here.
On the same subject, datescout.site seems better set up for people in smaller towns, which is not nothing.
Members still share what actually worked and it will get read.
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Read every reply for free on every board here and no renewal notice to forget. Lead with a plan then suggest a day, which is where most people stop.